What’s Respect Got To Do With Healthy Eating?

In my blog post 7 Simple Truths to Accountability {that will hit you in the gut} Simple Truth 3 states: Accountability shows respect towards others, and you are honoring yourself with self-respect when exercising accountability.

Why is it so important to respect yourself?

Over the years I’ve learned that you cannot give away what you do not have. So the more you respect yourself, the more respect you can give away to others.

One of my core values is to respect God first. Romans 12:1 tells us to offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God. This is your spiritual act of worship.

So how do we offer ourselves as living sacrifices? One way I’ve learned how to do that is by eating healthy, exercising and taking care of myself. This is honoring to God. I don’t claim to do it perfectly. Many times I mess it all up. But then there are days when I seem to get it right.

My prayer today is that each one of us would have a deep longing desire to respect God first with our lives. Leave a comment and share how you will honor God with your life today?

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My Invitation To You

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As another year comes to an end I like to spend a little time intentionally reflecting on the past year. It’s good medicine for the soul.

It creates gratitude.

It’s a gift I like to give myself.

Either I’ll carve out a day to get away to a quiet place or I’ll take a little time each morning for a few days to reflect.

Just a few months ago for my 40th birthday I connected with a group of girlfriends for a nice dinner but instead of having any old conversation we focused our time together on thoughtful questions to ponder.

It was a beautiful purposeful evening filled with intention I treasure.

As your Christian Life Coach I want to encourage you to schedule a time of reflection, maybe even today?

When reflecting, I like to take out my journal and write down all the sacred simple moments I encountered throughout the year.

Now I know how easy it is for our minds to go to that place of ugh!!!! I wish I would of, should of, or could of this year, but that’s not what this is about. This is a time to give yourself a {hug & a bit of love}.

Okay sweet friend?

So today I invite you to spend some time of reflection with me in the comments below. I’ll leave the first comment. 

From my heart to yours, thank you for being a part of my blog community. You are a gift to me! 

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SPECIAL NOTE: I will be increasing Coaching fees in January due to client volume and limited availability. However, sessions purchased during 2014 can be rolled over into 2015. 

3 Questions to Ask When Making a Decision

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Now that I have a teenage daughter I spend a lot of time making decisions … tuff parenting decisions.

I pray for wisdom and discernment just about hourly these days. Because I’m a bit of a control freak at times, it’s hard for me to release my tight grip from my “take charge know it all attitude”. And then before I know it I’ve made a bad decision based on my controlling ways that usually end up backfiring on me.

Have you ever had that happen?

Just yesterday when I was working with a client I had an epiphany. I asked her three questions that guided her into making a confident and firm decision.

After our meeting I thought wow I need to answer these questions for myself because I was feeling slightly stressed about yet another parenting decision. So I took out a piece of paper and wrote down the following 3 questions:

• Does your decision align with God’s word?
• Do you have confusion about your decision?
• Do you have peace about your decision?

Answering those questions made it clear to me that I did not need to move forward at this time in making a decision. Instead I needed to slow down and continue to seek God for guidance.

Often we rush into making decisions. We feel pressure to hurry up and keep moving. Let’s face it we live in a fast paced world and instant gratification has almost become a necessity.

Today I want to encourage you to slow down and ask yourself these 3 questions before making your next decision. It really works great for any decision you are making.

I would love to hear from you. What decisions are you wrestling with. Leave comment below.

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SPECIAL NOTE: I will be increasing Coaching fees in January due to client volume and limited availability. However, sessions purchased during 2014 can be rolled over into 2015. 

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Hello Sweet Friends,

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How to turn that frown upside down in 5 minutes or less

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Over the past few weeks, I’ve tried a little experiment that literally turned my frowns upside down within minutes.

Every time I found myself feeling a little discouraged in my day, I intentionally stopped what I was doing, reached for my phone and called someone to lift them up.

Most of the time I would get a voicemail, but instead of hanging up I left them a heartfelt message encouraging them and flattering them with oodles of love.

I was AMAZED at the results!

I immediately felt like a brand new person!

I felt happy, hopeful, and down right ECSTATIC!!

Will you try this experiment today? Leave a comment below and let me know how it works for you.

I currently have a waiting list, however I have a few appointments opening up in late April. I want to encourage you that there is hope and a new way of life through Christian coaching. ((hugs))

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The 5 Letter Word…we all feel.

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Shame.

I’ve wrestled with this word my entire life. I’ve tried to run away from it, but to no avail I sink in the slimy pit of this five-letter word desperately fighting my way out.

Shame suffocates.

Shame blames.

Shame cuts like a knife.

Shame isolates.

Shame feels like hell on earth.

There’s no way around it. We all feel shame. It’s part of who we are. It began in the garden with Adam and Eve. Do you remember their first response to God after they ate from the forbidden tree?

They hid! They felt shame.

We are not alone in this human emotion. Everybody has it. We all face it over and over every single day.

After so many years of avoiding the topic of shame, I finally came to terms with how much I’ve suffered from it. I decided I was sick and tired of the struggle, so I faced it head on. Dealing with it has literally transformed my life.

A while ago, I stepped out in faith and connected with a group of women to discuss shame. I learned very quickly that I’m not alone in my struggles.

I became EMPOWERED from making one intentional decision to connect with others instead of hiding. This snowballed into making more intentional decisions such as allowing myself to feel when I am hurt, instead of reaching for a box of cookies. Just the other day, when I was feeling discouraged I picked up the phone and scheduled a massage.

It is a very rare that I take the time for such luxury and pampering as a massage. As I’ve been learning exactly what it means to be courageous it’s rearranging my entire outlook on life. It’s empowering.

I want to challenge you today to step into courage with me. Be intentional. What can you do for yourself today that you’ve desperately needed for quite some time?

REMEMBER the $100 Visa Gift Card Giveaway this month. Every time you Like, Comment or Share on social media using #mycouragecoach you will be entered to win $100!

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How do you find courage within? My favorite way to dig deep and find courage is to talk about my obstacles and fears with someone.

I want to challenge you to share with a friend or leave me a comment about your obstacles and fears. I find when I share my fears I am much more likely to overcome them courageously.

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Who can you invite to be a part of #mycouragecoach this month? Spread courage…

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My Courage Coach

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I have some exciting news for you my friend! For the month of January I am going to be your personal Courage Coach! Yep you read that correctly.

I am all yours {big smiles}.

My blog & vlog will be completely focused on COURAGE to keep YOU motivated and inspired to live this year with audacious courage as you move ahead in 2014.

I’m giving you permission to stop asking yourself; am I really going to follow through with my goals this year? Will I have enough self-control to eat healthy, exercise daily or keep a positive mindset?

There’s no need to waste another second stressing out and worrying if you can do it, because you have me as your personal coach to give you a daily dose of courage.

Are you ready to join me?

Oh and that’s not all sweet friend! Make sure to follow me on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest or Instagram to receive daily Courage Coaching because every time you Share, Like, Retweet or Comment {be sure to use #mycouragecoach} you will be entered to WIN a $100 Visa Gift Card that will be drawn on January 31, 2014!

I’m excited to take this Courageous journey with you! I cannot wait to connect over the next few weeks as we dig deep together in COURAGE.

Who can you invite to be a part of #mycouragecoach this month? Spread courage…

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A Little Piece of Heaven

What path are you taking in 2014?

2014 for me will be about self-love & acceptance.

Thank you for giving me so many virtual ((hugs)) throughout 2013! You bless me over and over.

HAPPY NEW YEAR! I’m looking forward to a breakthrough year in 2014!!

Fun fact: I trained for my very first half-marathon with The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society Team In Training 6 months after my coma. Never say never on your bucket list! 

Linda Kuhar is a Certified Christian Life Coach, Board Certified Life Coach, Certified Human Behavior Consultant, Writer, Speaker, and Mentor. Click here to learn more about coaching with Linda & frequently asked questions about the coaching experience.